You've seen the idea they had at dinner that was better than anyone else's at the table. You've heard the opinion they'll defend for twenty minutes in the car and won't repeat in a classroom.
That's not their personality. That's a skill nobody taught them.
A real class in session — not a recorded course.
Faces and names have been blurred to protect student privacy.
Maybe it was the group project. They did most of the work and let someone else present it.
Maybe it was the teacher who said "they're so bright — I just wish they'd participate more." And you nodded, because you knew. And you didn't know what to do about it.
Or maybe it's simpler than that. Maybe you've just watched your child become a completely different person the second a room turns to look at them.
Loud at home. Gone in public.
You've probably told yourself it's a phase. That they'll grow out of it. That you were shy too, and you turned out fine.
Here's the harder thing to say out loud:
Not because anything is wrong with them. Because of how the loop works.
It doesn't start with fear. It starts with one moment. A stumble. A laugh. A blank stare from the back row.
So next time, they don't raise their hand.
And because they don't raise their hand, they never get better at it. And because they never get better at it, the fear collects a little more evidence. And that evidence justifies staying quiet the next time.
Round and round. Quietly. For years.
What makes it dangerous is that it's invisible. There's no report card for it. No teacher calls home about it. Nothing looks wrong. Your child just gradually becomes someone who doesn't speak up — until everyone, including them, starts calling that their personality.
Then one day it's a job interview. A pitch. A room full of people who needed to hear what they thought, and never did.
The skill is becoming more valuable at the exact moment it's becoming harder to build.
Of employers say communication is very or extremely important — but only 55.4% think new graduates actually have it.
Of employers using skills-based hiring apply it during the interview — in a room, out loud, with no resume to hide behind.
Less in-person social interaction with friends for ages 15–24 than two decades ago.
Of teens say smartphones made it harder to learn good social skills. That's teenagers saying it about themselves.
Your child isn't behind because they're missing something.
They're behind because almost nobody teaches this.
Much of the advice young people hear is about delivery. Stand like this. Breathe like that. Slow down.
It's useful advice — and it points in one direction: at the speaker. Which tends to be where a nervous child is already looking. How do I look? What are they thinking? Am I messing this up?
Joel Weldon's System starts by turning the camera around.
It is called the Audience Mindset, and the entire program swings on it.
The moment a young person stops asking "How am I doing?" and starts asking "What do they need from me?" — the nerves have a job. The self-consciousness has somewhere to go. Fear becomes focus.
You can't talk a child out of being nervous. But you can give them something more interesting to think about than themselves.
That isn't a mindset trick. It's a system — and it's often the difference between a child who gets through a presentation and one who connects with the room.
At 28, Joel Weldon gave his first talk. Afterward, a man walked up and told him he was the worst speaker he had ever heard in his entire life.
He didn't quit. He built a system.
Ten years later, he was inducted into the National Speakers Association's CPAE Speaker Hall of Fame. Over the next four decades, he delivered more than 3,000 paid speaking engagements and coached more than 10,000 speakers. His business card is an eight-ounce can that reads "Success Comes in Cans, not in Cannots." Half a million people keep one on their desk.
Joel is living proof this is not a gift you're born with. He wasn't born with it. That's the entire point.
Joel delivers fifteen minutes at the start of each class — his own teaching, anchored in a story from his own life.
Here's what makes this different from every other youth speaking program.
Your child won't only be taught by a legend seventy years older than them. They'll be hosted, live, every single class, by Coach Everett Aberle — who learned this exact system as a student, applied it to his own life, and now runs the room himself.
Joel and Everett share the same birthday — exactly 70 years apart, to the day.
Everett opens every session. He leads the discussion and the exercises. And he takes feedback in front of the room before any student is ever asked to.
Because when a young person watches someone close to their own age do the hard thing first, something happens that no adult can manufacture:
The master who drew the map. The young man who just walked the road. Together, that's a guide.

Supporting every class is Coach Troy Aberle, Everett's dad and a certified coach whose career has been teaching people to communicate and lead, including working directly with Tony Robbins and Chet Holmes. He runs everything behind the scenes so no student gets overlooked, and he's the person your family can reach for anything.
“Before my son and daughter took this program, they were okay talking to people, but not at a level I'd call confident and engaging. After four classes, they were better communicators at home, at school and on their sports team!”
— Parent
“My son now commands the rooms he's in, and adults are shocked at how quickly he has advanced.”
— Parent
“Both of our kids' teachers told me they were very impressed by how much better they speak in front of the class this fall. When they learned both had taken a speaking program this summer, they could see it made a huge difference.”
— Parent
Individual results vary.
Speaking is a skill built through practice, feedback, and repetition. Here's how this program is set up to deliver all three.
Small enough that every student is known, coached, and given real time in front of the room.
From night one. On their feet, every class, putting the skill to work the same day they learn it.
Strength named first. One thing to try next. Your child grows fastest in a room where feedback feels safe rather than scary.
Five badges, earned one at a time as their talk comes together, tracked in their own student workbook — proof of growth they keep long after the program ends.
Family, friends, teachers, teammates. The skill leaves the classroom the same night they learn it.
Coach Troy and Coach Everett host every single class live — and Joel Weldon is there too, teaching in his own words.
A practical, interactive program that helps youth ages 11–19 speak with confidence, organize their thoughts, and connect effectively with others — hosted live, every class, by Coach Troy Aberle and Coach Everett Aberle, featuring Hall of Fame Speaker Joel Weldon.
Participants become noticeably more comfortable expressing themselves, speaking under pressure, presenting ideas, and starting meaningful conversations — growth you'll see for yourself, side by side with their own before-and-after video, at the Ultimate Speaker Showcase.
At school, in class presentations, job and scholarship interviews, friendships, dating, workplace conversations, and eventually financial situations such as applying for credit. This is a life skill, not a stage skill — it shows up everywhere.
Not at all. The program supports quiet, nervous, and experienced speakers alike. Everyone begins at their own level, starting with a private baseline video only the coaches see, and builds from there at their own pace.
Smaller groups give everyone ample time to speak, practice, receive personal feedback, and form genuine connections with their peers. A room of 12 stays a room of 12, because that's how real coaching happens.
They will practice public speaking, storytelling, presentations, active listening, body language, quick thinking, conversation, and leadership — the full toolkit behind genuine confidence, not just a script for the stage.
It is highly interactive. Participants build confidence by speaking, practicing, listening, receiving feedback, and supporting one another — every single class, not just at the end of the program.
Yes. Cameras are expected to remain on so participants can practice eye contact, facial expressions, body language, and authentic audience connection — the exact conditions real speaking happens under.
Parents are always welcome to watch any class. Every class is led live by Coach Everett and Coach Troy, with Joel teaching at the start, so you always know exactly who is in the room with your child. Your child's first baseline video is private and seen only by the coaches, and on this website every student's face and name is blurred.
Then we want to know early. If after the first class you feel it isn't right for your child, tell us and we'll refund your payment in full.
Yes. Each participant is expected to attend every class unless illness or an unavoidable conflict prevents them. Consistency strengthens both individual progress and the class community — this program works because the group grows together.
Participants should arrive on time, engage fully, listen respectfully, and encourage others. When everyone commits, the class becomes a trusted community where young people feel supported enough to grow — and that trust is what makes the transformation possible.
That's why this was never just a speaking course.
Presentations go from something to survive to something they volunteer for. Teachers notice when your child speaks up. So do scholarship committees.
When most skills-based hiring happens in the interview itself, the child who can speak clearly under pressure walks in already ahead.
Nobody follows the person with the best idea. They follow the person who can make them see it. Every team, club, and company runs on that.
Saying the hard thing kindly. Disagreeing without damage. Being understood the first time.
A child who knows they can stand in front of a room and be heard carries that everywhere. It changes what they think they're allowed to attempt.
Six months from now, at your child's Ultimate Speaker Showcase.
Your child stands up in front of an invited audience — family, friends, the people who matter to them. You're right there. They deliver the talk they've been building since week one — start to finish, live, in front of everyone.
Then the room goes quiet.
Then your child's video from before any of this began plays. The one from night one, before they knew anything, when it was rough and awkward.
Same person. Six months apart.
Nobody will need to tell you it worked. You'll be sitting right there.
Then the class votes — not on who was most polished. On who climbed the furthest. Any child can win that. Which is exactly the point.
Every family takes the video home. You'll still have it in twenty years.
And if schedules allow, a bonus in-person Stage Day may follow the Showcase — details announced during the program.
Let's be honest about what your part in this actually is.
You can't give your child confidence. You can't buy it, and you can't talk them into it. You've probably already tried both.
They have to do this themselves. The reps are theirs. The Showcase is theirs. The win is theirs.
Your part is one decision — and it's the one nobody else in their life is going to make for them.
Most people don't fix this until it costs them something. A job they didn't get. A pitch they couldn't deliver. A room they sat silent in.
You will spend money on your child this year. Sports. Tutoring. A laptop. Braces. Almost all of it serves one season of their life.
This one serves every room they walk into for the next seventy years.
Your investment in your child's future is only
Founding-family rate open until Friday, Oct 30 at 11:59 PM Pacific. After that, the regular rate is $3,700.
Every group is capped at twelve, so every student speaks, gets feedback, and is known by name. Group 1 starts Thursday, Nov 5. Group 2 starts Thursday, Nov 12. Both meet every other Thursday at 4:00 PM Pacific · 7:00 PM Eastern.
Join the Youth EditionNot the right fit after the first class? Tell us and we'll refund your payment in full.
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Troy Aberle International Inc. & Joel Weldon's Ultimate Speaking System
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[email protected]
(587) 896-5806
Effective date: October 18, 2026
Last updated: October 18, 2026